Welcome to Double Life Living

For women balancing motherhood, healing, and self-reinvention — this is where we start putting the pieces back together.

Story: Why double lives Happen

I didn’t set out to live two lives — it just happened somewhere between the carpool line and the courtroom. One version of me was holding it together: the mom, the planner, the caretaker. The other? Trying to remember who she was before everything changed.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re living one life for your family and another just trying to find yourself again… you’re in the right place.

Double Life Living was born from my own rebuilding — after separation, after chaos, and after realizing that no one was coming to save me but me.
I learned that peace isn’t about balance — it’s about systems that hold you when you can’t hold everything else.

Is this for you?

❌ Those looking for a highlight reel
❌ Anyone expecting a one-size-fits-all plan
❌ People who want “toxic positivity” instead of real talk

✅ Women navigating co-parenting, custody shifts, or new independence
✅ Moms trying to stay organized while healing or rebuilding
✅ Anyone craving structure without the “perfect mom” performance
✅ People ready to be honest about burnout, guilt, and starting over

If you’re here for systems, sanity, and a little humor while you rebuild — you’re my people.

No, move on, hard pass

Yes, this is definitely for you

The Double Life Framewok

This 5-step method is how we turn breakdowns into decisions that actually stick.

1️⃣ Clarify – What’s really going on (not just the noise).
2️⃣ Diagnose – Identify the real problem beneath the surface.
3️⃣ Options – Explore choices from logic and emotion.
4️⃣ Ground – Align decisions with your values and future self.
5️⃣ Action – Create a clear next step — no overthinking required.

You’ll see this framework show up everywhere here — from blog posts to planners and coaching tools.
It’s how I rebuilt my life, one decision at a time.

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Start Fresh Now

Get my Double Life Weekly Reset — a one-page planner that blends meals, mindset, and money so your week starts calm, not chaotic.

Remember

You don’t need to choose between being the mom who shows up and the woman who’s still becoming.
You can be both — just not all at once, and never alone.

Welcome to your double life — reimagined.